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My last blog entry raised the question of why men cheat, and thousands of you weighed in–not just on the whys of cheating, but on what, exactly, constitutes cheating. In fact, one woman said she considers it cheating if her man so much as looks at another woman. Huh? You mean he’s not even allowed to scope, peek, glance, admire, or notice another beautiful woman? Now, it’s one thing to hold a man’s words, actions, or nether regions to a high standard. But his eyes, too? That seems to make about as much sense as our societal obsession with Britney’s apparently empty underwear drawer.

While researching my book Men, Love & Sex, I found that not only do men and women define fidelity differently, but they also fail to talk about their definitions before something happens (with the exception of the one action everyone acknowledges as cheating). Here’s how guys tend to define the murkier areas of fidelity. Don’t like it? Then talk about it now before he steps across a line he didn’t know existed.

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The first step in giving an erotic massage is to make a connection with your partner. try some simple yoga exercises facing each other and also use good eye contact and some synchronized breathing. One can be together in the breathe or try alternate breathing. In this, the man breathes out when the women breathes in etc.

It is best to use a massage table for erotic massage. One needs to be comfortable giving a erotic massage and the massage should last one hour or more. If you are not comfortable you will not want to give a love massage. The next step is to do a full body relaxing massage. Ask your partner to lie naked face down on the massage table.

Place one hand on her head and one on her back for a few moments to connect the energies. Then start a sensual massage with long strokes and very light touch to start.

Using silk, feathers and fur is very nice at this stage of the erotic massage. Use long strokes from the legs over the genitals and up to the chest and face. Fur touching the face can feel great.

It is good to be rhythmic yet sensitive in your strokes and use long gliding strokes to some deep ones. Take care of body when giving a massage and bend from the legs rather than bending over your partner.

Do some deep pressing at points that hold a lot of tension and ask your partner to breathe as this releases the tension. The upper bum area and lower back and the area in the back behind the heart and shoulders and neck are common stress areas. It is important to get feedback when using deep pressure.

After the deep massage, do so some relaxing strokes on your partner’’s back, legs, and feet. Ask him or her turn over. Massage the front of the body with strokes over the arms, legs and neck. Brush the genitals when going up the legs to tease and awaken the sexual energy.

If you are massaging a women then spend some time massaging the breasts and nipples. Ask her what she likes in this area as some women do not like their nipples massaged. Place one hand on the heart area and hold the vulva with the other hand and hold for a moment. The heat of your hand will energize the vulva.

Ask for permission to go further in the vulva massage and look into your partners eyes when asking this.

If you are massaging a man, some penis massage strokes work better in a softer penis. Tell your partner that he does not need an erection to enjoy a erotic massage. If you feel he is close to coming, tell him to breath deeply and relax.

Massaging the g spot in a women can lead to intense full body tantra orgasms so spend a lot of time in this area. The more the women can relax and let go the deeper the experience. Ask her to make sounds and really relax.

source : 101relationshipmatters

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1. Be curious

A study of more than 1,100 elderly men found taking an interest in the world is strongly associated with longevity.

We all know that dating can be a lot like an American Idol audition. Maybe it goes horribly, maybe you’re nervous, maybe you crack under pressure, maybe you wear the wrong outfit, or maybe you nail the audition with perfect conversation and a one-of-a-kind style. Whatever the case, there’s a lot of pressure in any early-on period of a relationship because the judges-though they may not say anything to your face-are just as harsh as our three household favorites. So if you continually find yourself being sent home rather than being sent on, chances are that either it simply wasn’t meant to be or that you’re not projecting your best possible side for your intended audience. Here are some clues into what may be going wrong, so you can change your luck – and make sure you have enough time to really prove yourself.

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